>>114177>going into she told me she had somewhat feelings for her ex who abused herThat shoulda been a red flag, sure you can pity her plight to an extent but her willingness to even humor the idea of getting back with an ex when it clearly didn't workout is a sign she lacks emotional maturity or common sense in general. Like do parents not teach their kids this shit anymore? Yikes.
Anyway no OP you never had a chance at 'fixing her'. Well better luck next time at finding a gal on par with or above you mentally whom you love and respect.