I'm tired of being completely socially retarded, it makes communicating with even people online difficult. I hate it so much but i dont know what to do its been like this for 15+ years bros
>>413031 Hmmm, I keep forgetting that it has a different effect on me and generalize my experience on others. For me it made more introspective and solved some mental barricades I had. Find a party full of Goyim and go there, bare thru the pain and awkwardness or maybe try going homeless for a couple of days, these are unironic fixes btw I'm too tired to type out a lengthy explanation here but trust me ;)
i dont think its possible, all you can do is fake it
im pretty socially retarded but i managed to fake it during the skill checks and somehow i got lots of lucrative work i dont think its possible to not be socially retarded for me but i might be able to continue passing important skill checks im pretty smart but its obvious that doesnt have much to do with it and being attractive and tall makes up like 90% of people giving me the chance in the first place
protip if you were an annoying kid in like kindergarten-2nd grade ur probably an extrovert and just don't know how to harness it
I have been learning this about myself recently; I have the ability to enter a Chad flowstate but it's hampered by years of being told I'm unworthy. I think most social retards are like this and have simply been taught by past interactions that it's better to clam up and not bother anybody, but that's a psyop because 1.) You cannot learn except through failure; that is, social skills fix themselves over time if you exercise them, and importantly, they atrophy if you don't. That's why they're called SKILLS. 2.) In 99% of cases this is a learned behavior that emerges in childhood but that's a faulty basis because kids are the biggest most selfish niggers on the planet and once you're an adult and out of school people stop caring about 99% of the shit that was holding you back from socializing in school so it doesn't matter.
Plus, bonus, third reason, if ur teens to mid twenties rn it's not even your fault because of the panned emic. Everyone in that age bracket is an autist right now, or they were very recently.
Bottom line, go out and fix it. Fix it by swallowing your fear and just saying shit. Even if you say it like a complete autist it does not matter. I literally asked a girl out today and I was like >ehrr so like are you like yknow doing anything this, ehrrr And it went fine, she smiled and told me that was what she needed today. She didn't recoil and go "EUGH! GET AWAY FROM ME, YE WITH NO ARTICULATION!". The fact of the matter is if you're an adult ass woman out of high school and you're still being that shallow, that's on you. I swear on my life OP shit is not that complicated and I'm a complete retard socially. Note: This is also because we were having fun before that. Do not cold approach girls lol.
It's literally all about being brave. People like it when you try. It's endearing.
Now, there is a wrong way to do it. It all comes from your value system. Don't say anything sexual when you're first meeting someone, unless you're GENUINELY getting that energy from them (this is importánte because it's very easy to psyop yourself into being like "she wants it"). Nerd out, but do not nerd out in a chuddy or autistic way; example, if you want to talk about TF2, relate it to normalfags. If you've just met a dude u vibe w and you KNOW he's a top tier normalnigger, you gotta be like >Oh yeah so there's this game I play, it actually inspired Overwatch if you didn't know that, and it plays like [blah blah blah...] and not like >Team Fortress 2 is a class-based shooter descended from a Quake mod that [this is the point where a normgroid's eyes glaze over.]
Beyond that, ehrr... never ever ever tell somebody "you smell nice", and don't ever, EVER use a pick-up line, it never works.
That's about all I can tell you. Like I said, most of it is shit you just kind of intuitively learn, so go out there, be an autist, fail a few times, and when you do, I want you to take a step back, and ask yourself what you did and said, and the way you did or said it, and how you might take that if you were talking with someone you like, but just met, because most people default to liking people when they first meet them, not disliking them.
Also, if you *are* a little chuddybutt, I hate to say it, but you need to be fairly high-tier for people to look past it imo. When I say chud, I don't necessarily mean right-wing beliefs, although that's definitely part of it, what makes a chud is a combination of: >right-wing, especially social, not fiscal, beliefs (Note: Left-wing chuds exist and usually manifest as "nice guys" but they are a lot rarer and require you to either completely not know what you're talking about or be so fringe and annoying that other leftists hate you) >entitlement >poor grooming >poor emotional regulation >terminal online-ness See if you can identify these and rectify them in such a way that the only boxes checked are ones you want checked.
>>413871 Also i dont want to deal with woman i already have to hear enough from them already. Even when ive talked to zoomer i get hit with "the stare" like pic related
No but seriously it's not over till it's over but at 28-29 (past 25, really) you have no excuse to be a cute lil shy anime boy anymore. I'd try speed dating because it's ez and low stakes and mostly populated by uncs anyways. Other potential avenues are the workplace (you kind of have to make friends) or classes (painting, pottery, shit like that) because the crowd tends to skew a wee bit older, especially depending on the subject. Get into something besides gaming and gooning so you have something to talk about. And protip #2 if you're really into gaming try to relate it to something actually interesting. For example if you've played The Saboteur you can use it as a launchpad to talk about WW2 history, Vichy France, Ireland in WW2, the racing scene in the 30s, a buncha stuff.
Also >heh, I'm totally over le foids Really? What a goddamn alpha you must be. I suppose it's worth dying alone because dem wahmen be annoying an sheeeit
Like yeah, women can be annoying sometimes, but they can also be a very good addition to your life. Intimacy is cool. I'm not judging though as long as you're actually volceling and not just tricking yourself. Smearing lipstick on your face in the mirror going "IT'S HYPERGAMY'S FAULT, NOT MINE" etc etc
>>413878 Nigga i don't want dating id want friends but all niggas my age become boring as shit with le wife le job le kids and consume, and i especially do not want kids if they will turn out an autistic schizoid
I just think you're denying yourself something really special by discarding even the idea of wahmen. Just food for thought, no judgment. But yeah, you can meet friends everywhere I said except speed dating lole.
