>>427994 logistics, this and how vile whores are in poland i think id feel bitterly satisfied by cementing myself as a chud subhuman once and for all and stop being seen as a faggot its not like at the ripe age of 20 there is any sort of "first" type of experience to be had not that i can hope for any at all but the innocence ship has sailed and harboring attachment to some sort of idealised expectation prevents me from becoming a serious grown up person
approach one and have a normal conversation. be genuine and try to make friends. do not use PUA shit under any circumstances. talk to her like she's your sister; that is, be casual, but more respectful to her than you would, say, someone on the internet.
Once the conversation peters out (the best way of handling this is keeping it going as long as possible, but it should feel clean and give you the same feeling as racking up a combo in a vidya. once you get that slimy feeling, close your mouth.) casually bring up a date idea. this is not as awkward as many think and even having a short conversation beforehand can drastically improve your chances over cold approaching. for example, "Hey, I'm kinda hungry. I was thinking about getting some food, you wanna come with?" The key is to literally say it like how you would to a friend. You're looking for things to warm up as quickly as possible. You will either get a yes or a no from this. If she says "yes", go eat, and continue to the next step. If "no", mission abort, try again with someone else. If "I would, but...", this is where you exchange numbers or social media. This acts as a lie detector as well, and it lets you arrange another attempt in the future.
If yes, ask if you can go back to her place. By this point, you need to project strength because unless she's suuuuper naive she knows what you're asking. You will go back and play a board game or watch a movie or something and this is your time to get drunk ideally but you can do this sober. Once the good times peter out you'll either be asked to leave or stay the night and if you stay then FINALLY you can just ask directly. Do not make it awkward and do not be overly descriptive. People are very casual now and while it's always been a little more romantic for me I've had at least one friend tell me it's been easy as "Hey, you wanna have sex?" granted he's a bit of a chadlite-to-chad so it's a bit different
t. had sex
FAQ: >Why not cold approach? PUA shit? That only works on whores, and generally it only works if you're chad. What you're witnessing in the Indian looksmaxxer video for example is himbo-to-bimbo communication, that's literally all it is. What normal person walks up and presents an itemized list of reasons, predominantly genealogical, that they want to "slay" someone? It's nonsense and will make you look like a creep. I don't care if you think it's wrong, this is one of those "roll with or get rolled on" things. Act normally. >But muh hypergamy You're a braindead retard if you unironically believe in hypergamy like how the chart shows it. 99% of women have accepted by this point that most men are not male models who look 17 and are willing to settle if you have a good personality. Even women you think of as being far, far outside your league are generally willing to be like "wow this guy is cool. sure he's not a looker but it's what's inside that counts" t. has talked to women also protip basic grooming goes a long way. studies have shown that people in general perceive ugly but well-kept people as more attractive than hot but unkempt ones. That is to say, attractiveness is largely a measure of effort, not genetic expression. Practice hygiene and learn basic outfit composition and you're automatically a 6 at the very least. Pulling is WAY easier than you think. >but im avtistic... autism is a superpower unironically especially if you don't have the bad autism (shitting yourself, slamming your palms into your ears, drooling tard-tier shit). unharnessed it's bad but you need to be like a shaolin monk and learn to direct it. many wahmin don't actually have a problem with most autistic traits, like hyperfixation, and their primary concern is not wanting to be your mommy-maid-girlfriend. As long as you're self-sufficient you can make it work. t. adhd and successful w girls >but I don't want to talk to foids I want SEX NOW!!!! life isn't hentai, king. you need at least a baseline level of familiarity and probably 2 dates to consistently get sex. if you want sexo nao though the best places to get it are at raves and bars. Raves are genuinely ez mode (according to friends) but they are very loud and very hot and you'll probably have to fuck in the bathroom where like 8 other people have had the same idea. Bars are more difficult but still doable, buy ONE drink for a girl, don't be a creep, start a conversation, and then ask if she's doing anything tonight. failure rate will be reasonably high but that's probably the most reliable way to get sex without any of the bs.
also, dating apps are horseshit don't use them. you can strike out sometimes but by and large it's built for chad and stacy. you can reserve a spot if you pay the company an arm and a leg but you'll probably still be getting ignored regardless.
>>427995 I'm probably not the one to talk with about this since you've seen my Kafkaesque experience with my foid but you have to understand that the expectations you have in your head be it romantical and sexual do not exist. The average foid is calculating and don't experience love the same way men do if u want a gf and going to a prostitute is nothing like the porn you watch. The best thing to do is find a way to make enough money to not have to toil and suffer with indians in the rat race. It's going to get tough in the upcoming decades.
I believe the only reason that foid wanted me is because she thinks my field of work is good n shit and she's nearing thirty and wants to latch onto anything desperately.
